Pew Research’s 2008 national survey of 2,260 adults found that movers and
stayers reported virtually identical community satisfaction: about 60% of
each group rated their communities as good to excellent, implying roughly
40% of stayers did not. Discounted conservatively — since
dissatisfaction with one’s community is not the same as regretting the
decision to stay — the inaction-side proxy sits near 30%. All Star
Home’s August 2023 survey of 1,000 Americans found that 1 in 5
homeowners who moved within the prior three years regret the decision,
with the top reasons being unexpected costs, missing their old neighborhood,
and missing their old home. A third said they would consider moving back to
their former city or state. LendingTree’s 2023 survey of young
adults corroborates constrained staying: 42% of hometown stayers felt
obligated to remain near family and 33% said they could not afford to
leave, though neither obligation nor financial constraint is regret.
The 10-percentage-point gap between the action-side 20% and the
inaction-side 30% tilts this entry toward inaction-dominates territory,
consistent with Gilovich and Medvec’s temporal framework: staying put is
the passive default, and the unlived life in the distant city grows more
painful over time. Yet the gap is modest, and the data is imperfect on
both sides. All Star Home’s companion hometown report found that nearly
half of those who left their hometown miss it and 21% plan to move back,
suggesting the 20% regret rate understates the emotional cost of leaving.
HireAHelper’s 2021 pandemic-era survey found a higher 30% regret rate
among movers, though that figure likely reflects the unusual circumstances
of 2020 moves and a broader definition of regret that includes process
complaints like logistics and timing.
The core measurement problem remains: no single survey asks both
populations the same regret question about the specific hometown decision.
The action-side 20% measures explicit regret among all movers (not just
hometown leavers), while the inaction-side 30% is inferred from Pew’s
community-satisfaction data rather than a direct regret question.
Self-selection confounds everything: people who leave small towns tend to
be more educated and higher-earning, meaning their post-move satisfaction
reflects both the move and the traits that made them move. Rural-to-urban
and suburb-to-suburb moves are fundamentally different decisions lumped
under the same “leaving hometown” label.
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[1]All Star Home — Americans' Moving Habits and Regrets Data Survey 2023
Zweryfikowane
Źródło referencyjne
Among homeowners who have moved in the last 3 years, 1 in 5 regret it
Cytat
“"Among homeowners who have moved in the last 3 years, 1 in 5 regret it. Overall, 1 in 5 Americans say the hassle of moving wasn't worth it and 1 in 3 would consider moving back to their former city or state."
”
Dane źródłowe z
2023-08-01
Dostęp
2026-04-27
Weryfikacja
Cytat niezależnie pobrany ponownie i potwierdzony słowo w słowo z podanym źródłem podczas naszego audytu ugruntowania.
Obliczenie
All Star Home surveyed 1,000 Americans in August 2023 about moving habits and regrets. The 20% (1 in 5) figure captures homeowners who moved in the prior 3 years and report regretting the move. Top reasons for regret include unexpected costs, missing their old neighborhood or city, and missing their old home. This is a broader mover population, not exclusively hometown leavers, but the survey's companion report on hometown living found that nearly half of those who left their hometown miss it, suggesting the 20% regret rate is conservative for hometown-specific departures.
[2]HireAHelper — 2021 Study: Do People Actually Regret Moving?
Źródło referencyjne
About a third (30%) of those who moved in the past year have at least a few regrets about their move
Cytat
“"About a third (30%) of those who moved in the past year have at least a few regrets about their move. Millennials are the least pleased with their move, as 37% of them regret at least something about it — more than any other generation."
”
Dane źródłowe z
2021-01-25
Dostęp
2026-04-27
Obliczenie
HireAHelper surveyed 1,000 Americans who moved in 2020, fielded January 2021. The 30% figure captures respondents who reported "at least a few regrets" about their move. This higher rate compared to All Star Home's 20% likely reflects the broader definition of regret (including minor process complaints like logistics and timing) and the pandemic-era context when many moves were rushed. We use All Star Home's 20% as the primary rate because its 3-year lookback better captures settled regret rather than immediate post-move frustration.
[3]All Star Home — Report: 29% of Americans Still Live in Their Hometowns
Zweryfikowane
Źródło referencyjne
Nearly half of Americans who left their hometown miss it, and 21% are planning to move back to their home state (14% specifically aiming to move back to their hometown)
Cytat
“"Nearly half of those who left miss their hometown, and 21% are planning to move back to their home state sometime in the future. Of those, 14% are aiming to move back to their hometown."
”
Cytat niezależnie pobrany ponownie i potwierdzony słowo w słowo z podanym źródłem podczas naszego audytu ugruntowania.
Obliczenie
2026-07 grounding fix. All Star Home's companion "hometown living" report (same August 2023 survey wave of 1,000 Americans as the moving-regret-report cited above). Grounds the body-prose claim that nearly half of hometown-leavers miss their hometown and 21% plan to move back to their home state — a claim the prose made without its own citation prior to this fix. Corroborates that the action-side 20% generic moving-regret figure likely understates the hometown-specific emotional cost of leaving, since missing the place is a stronger and more specific measure than generic moving regret.
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[1]Pew Research Center — Who Moves? Who Stays Put? Where's Home?
Badanie pierwotne
37% of Americans have never left their hometown; ~60% of stayers rate their communities as good to excellent, implying ~40% do not
Cytat
“"Nearly four-in-ten adults (37%) have never left the community in which they were born. Stayers overwhelmingly say they remain because of family ties (74%) and because their hometowns are good places to raise children (59%)."
”
Dane źródłowe z
2008-12-17
Dostęp
2026-04-27
Obliczenie
Pew Research Center survey of 2,260 US adults conducted Oct 3–19, 2008. Approximately 40% of stayers do not rate their communities as good-to-excellent. We use ~30% as a conservative inaction-side proxy because community dissatisfaction does not equate to decision-level regret — some dissatisfied stayers may still prefer staying for family or financial reasons. The 30% estimate is anchored in the Pew equal-satisfaction finding: since movers and stayers report identical satisfaction (~60%), the implied dissatisfaction rate among stayers (~40%) discounted for those who are dissatisfied but do not attribute it to staying yields a figure comparable to the action-side 30%.
[2]LendingTree — 57% of Young Americans Live in Their Hometowns, but 47% Who Don't Would Consider Moving Back
Źródło referencyjne
42% of young hometown stayers felt obligated to stay near family; 33% couldn't afford to move
Cytat
“"Among those who didn't leave home, 42% felt obligated to stay near family, 36% stayed out of convenience and 33% couldn't afford to move."
”
Dane źródłowe z
2023-12-18
Dostęp
2026-04-27
Obliczenie
LendingTree commissioned QuestionPro to survey 1,984 US millennials and Gen Zers (ages 18–42) from Nov 16–20, 2023; of these, 1,129 lived in their hometowns. The 42% who felt "obligated" and 33% who "couldn't afford to move" suggest a substantial fraction of stayers whose staying was constrained rather than freely chosen. This corroborates the Pew dissatisfaction proxy but is not itself a regret measure — obligation and financial constraint are not equivalent to retrospective regret about the decision to stay.
Zastrzeżenia
Żadna ze stron nie ma bezpośredniej, porównywalnej miary żalu dla konkretnej decyzji „opuszczenia rodzinnego miasta”, więc oba wskaźniki to proxy. 20% po stronie działania (All Star Home 2023) mierzy jawny żal z przeprowadzki wśród właścicieli domów, którzy przeprowadzili się w ciągu 3 lat — w tym przeprowadzki lokalne, międzymiastowe i międzystanowe — nie konkretnie tych, którzy opuścili rodzinne miasto dla odległego miasta. Ankieta HireAHelper z 2021 r. dotycząca pandemicznych przeprowadzających ustaliła wyższy wskaźnik żalu 30%, prawdopodobnie odzwierciedlając jej szerszą definicję żalu i niezwykłe okoliczności przeprowadzek z 2020 r. ~30% po stronie zaniechania jest wnioskowane z ustalenia Pew 2008, że ~40% pozostających nie ocenia swoich społeczności pozytywnie, konserwatywnie zdyskontowane, ponieważ niezadowolenie społecznościowe nie jest tym samym co żal decyzyjny. Ustalenie LendingTree z 2023 r., że 42% młodych pozostających czuło się zobowiązanymi do pozostania blisko rodziny, a 33% nie stać było na przeprowadzkę, potwierdza, że sensowna część pozostawania jest ograniczona, a nie wybrana, ale ograniczenie finansowe nie jest retrospektywnym żalem. Samodobór jest poważny: osoby opuszczające rodzinne miasta różnią się systematycznie od pozostających w edukacji, dochodach, tolerancji na ryzyko i osobowości, czyniąc wnioskowanie przyczynowe o samej decyzji prawie niemożliwym. Społeczno-ekonomiczne zafałszowania dominują — opuszczenie podupadającej wiejskiej miejscowości na rzecz boomu metropolii jest inną decyzją niż opuszczenie kwitnącego przedmieścia na rzecz nadmorskiego miasta.
